Article: Love and Romance: It’s Out There…


Love and Romance with the best possible person for you is an achievable goal and one that can bring personal satisfaction and lifelong love. How one goes about finding and holding on to love is not something done ‘off-the-cuff’. It is something that needs to be well-panned and equally well-executed. Getting the right professional support and guidance can be integral to making your dreams a reality.

Love and Romance: It’s Out There…


Author: Malcolm M.


For most adult men and women, finding true love can be something both highly sought after and vastly elusive. In the mind of many people it’s akin to the dream of making a million dollars or more. Monetary gain or obtaining riches, along with power, are longings as old as time in the human scheme of things. Money, or the getting of money, has a tangible aspect to it in that it is achievable; particularly if one garners popularity (through beauty or charisma), exhibits popular traits or actions, or can cater to the popular and much sought after needs of others. Someone once said to me, “Getting money is easy. I’ve done it. I’ve got money. Striking it rich in love is another thing again. Love is something deceptively simple to want, yet excruciatingly difficult to find and hold on to. I’ve yet to find the mother load. I don’t know how or where to begin digging.”

As far as longings go, Love (and Happiness) is at the very least on a par with Wealth and Fame as being an important, even fundamental, yearning. In the same way the attainment of monetary wealth is achievable due to its tangible nature, the attainment of love is something that, more often than not, keeps slipping through one’s fingers time and time again. It seems that the harder one grasps at it the more readily it gets away from us. To the uninitiated, it’s almost as if one expects to grab hold of it in the same way as a handful of cash. This seems particularly true for those who can reach out and clutch as much as they want at any one time. The intangible and abstract nature of Love, as far it can be put into words, serves to keep its acquisition out of the immediate reach of most; including those who have been successful in the realm of attaining financial success and accumulated wealth. Love, as the sayings always go, is not something that can necessarily be bought; unless, of course, the object of one’s desire sets a reasonable and affordable sale price. By and large both rich and poor alike must compete on relatively level ground, though having money and good looks is always seen as an added advantage.

Finding a life partner is not only a matter of coming to terms with what you are essentially looking for, but also knowing where to commence looking (a.k.a. ‘digging’) in order to find that elusive person. Of added importance is the type and quality of tools you use to excavate. Of course, with a reliable map to refer to, the task at hand becomes less of a hit and miss affair. So what constitutes a good map? To put it in less metaphoric terms, sound professional representation made up by experienced people who know what they are doing and talking about can be of enormous help when looking for love with Mr. or Miss Right. There’s a very old saying that goes: ‘Good ‘Help’ is hard to come by’. This is certainly true when trying to find trustworthy guidance; particularly if one is mounting their search on the internet; which is where most people do their contemporary looking. As the Internet is practically littered with all sorts of flotsam and jetsam, it is hard to know just who to trust and who to avoid.

To a certain degree, someone who is looking for that elusive special person and unsure of how to find him or her will, at some stage, have to put their trust in someone to assist. In a world of almost total specialization, each of us tends to draw on the skills and know-how of others. To ensure that trust is not misplaced, one needs to identify whether those that are chosen to assist are indeed reliable. As there are rotten apples out and about – almost everywhere as a matter of fact - there are also good ones. This applies to almost everything. Using a professional service provider can be a godsend; if said service provider is honest and can deliver as promised. Using the experience of friends and hearsay may not get you very far. Usually a sound professional will have both knowledge and first-hand experience to offer; particularly if they have gone through it all themselves. Before committing to use the skills and resources of a proper and sound Service Provider, take the time to make sure they know what they are doing and talking about. Discuss matters with them personally; not just accept the marketing prowess of an on-line spectre. Deal with a real person or persons; not with real propaganda. Beware: the most high profile identity is not always the most knowledgeable or experienced as internet presence can be wangled. Cunning search engine optimization can raise the visibility of some really shady operations. If it looks and sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Use scrutiny and look for honesty and professional dependability. If you’ll look, you’ll find it. This not only applies to service providers, but also the object of your search; a loving, life-long partner. Love and romance is definitely out there. Don’t let the opportunity to find it pass you by

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Malcolm M. is a professional writer, academic and former teacher, who with his wife, Lyudmyla, co-owner/founder of HEAVENLY HEARTS International Dating Marriage Agency located at .

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